Love and Support Wanted!
When you are in a relationship you want to feel the love and support from your partner. Sometimes you might be presented with difficult life situations whether that be to do with family, friends or work. These issues can make you really struggle and this can have an impact on your relationship. This is where communication is really important.
When you can openly share what is going on for you and how you feel then your partner can be there for you.Unless you can openly share your issues and feelings then sometimes your partner does not know what is going on nor do they know how they can help.
They want to be able to love you when your at your worst and you probably want to feel loved when you are “at your worst”.
Share your Problems
If you or your partner are having life difficulties learn to share your problems and just be there for the other person. This doesn’t mean you have to offer advice but just listen, truly listen from your heart with love. Be able to say supportive words like:
- ‘I am here’,
- ‘I understand’,
- ‘How can I help you?’
- ‘I believe in you’
- ‘I love you’
Being in love and loving someone means being able to enjoy each other in all the fun times but also being able to ride the waves when things are more challenging or difficult. This means that you can still feel the depth of love between each other and know that it is okay to be experiencing what you are currently feeling.
So allow yourself to be there for your partner.
- Allow them to feel what they are feeling
- Listen fully
- Offer help
- Hug them and hold them
- Be prepared to change your usual routines
Love them when they are at that weakest and their worst! Offer your heart and hold them when they need to be held and just be there! You will end up with a stronger and more loving relationship when things improve.